Can a Buyer Engage Another Broker to Assist Them if There Is a Breakdown in the Professional Relationship?
The relationship between a buyer and their real estate broker is one built on trust, communication, and professionalism. However, like any professional relationship, breakdowns can occur. When this happens, buyers may wonder if they can engage another broker to assist them. This question is complex, especially given the ethical guidelines set forth by the National Association of REALTORS® (NAR). In this post, we’ll examine the relevant rules and best practices for handling such situations.
Understanding the NAR Code of Ethics on Exclusive Buyer Agreements
The NAR Code of Ethics is clear on its stance regarding exclusive buyer agreements. Specifically, it states:
“REALTORS® shall not solicit buyer agreements from buyers who are subject to exclusive buyer agreements.”
This provision ensures that brokers respect existing professional relationships and agreements. However, the Code also includes guidance for situations where buyers reach out to other REALTORS® without solicitation. It states:
“When REALTORS® are contacted by clients of another REALTOR® regarding the creation of an exclusive relationship to provide the same type of service, and REALTORS® have not directly or indirectly initiated such discussions, they may discuss the terms upon which they might enter into a future agreement or may enter into an agreement which becomes effective upon expiration of any existing exclusive agreement.”
In other words, if a buyer approaches a broker unprompted, the broker may discuss a future professional relationship. However, any new agreement must respect the terms and timeline of the buyer’s existing exclusive agreement.
Practical Challenges and Ethical Risks
While the Code provides some flexibility, real-world situations are often more complicated. For example, a buyer who is frustrated with their current broker may approach a new broker with immediate needs or questions. In such cases, adhering strictly to the ethical guidelines can be challenging.
Key Risks to Consider:
- Ethical Violations: Engaging in discussions that go beyond the scope of a future agreement can lead to ethical violations, especially if the buyer solicits advice or assistance that conflicts with their current agreement.
- Legal Consequences: Breaching an exclusive buyer agreement could result in legal disputes between brokers or even between the buyer and their existing broker.
- Reputational Damage: Overstepping ethical boundaries can harm a broker’s professional reputation, both within the industry and among potential clients.
Best Practices for Buyer Brokers
To navigate these situations ethically and professionally, brokers should follow these best practices:
1. Avoid Engaging in Discussions with Buyers in Exclusive Relationships
Even if the buyer initiates contact, it’s best to avoid discussions about a potential future relationship. Many buyers may struggle to limit the conversation to future terms and could inadvertently place the broker in an ethically risky position.
Pro Tip: Politely explain the ethical guidelines and suggest that the buyer resolves their issues with their current broker first. If the relationship remains strained, they can revisit the possibility of working together after their existing agreement expires.
2. Consult with Your Broker or Legal Counsel
If you’re unsure about the ethical or legal implications of a specific situation, seek guidance from your managing broker or legal counsel. They can provide clarity and help you determine the best course of action.
3. Document All Interactions
Keep detailed records of any communication with a buyer who has an existing exclusive agreement. Documentation can protect you if any misunderstandings or complaints arise.
4. Educate Buyers About Exclusive Agreements
Many buyers may not fully understand the implications of an exclusive buyer agreement. Use this as an opportunity to educate potential clients about the importance of these agreements and how they can affect their ability to switch brokers.
Proceed with Caution and Integrity
While it’s possible for a buyer to engage another broker when their professional relationship breaks down, doing so requires careful adherence to the NAR Code of Ethics. Buyer brokers must prioritize professionalism and avoid actions that could jeopardize their reputation or ethical standing.
By following best practices and maintaining open, honest communication, brokers can navigate these complex situations while upholding the highest standards of their profession. For more guidance on ethical issues in real estate, check out additional resources at Indiana Real Estate Institute.

Brian is a highly acclaimed speaker, broker, instructor, appraiser, and construction expert with over 25 years of experience. Brian received his bachelor’s degree in finance & real estate from Indiana University and is currently attending IU McKinney Law. GO Hoosiers! After his disappointing attempt at being the next ultimate Jedi Master in the latest Star Wars movie, he found his force talents were much better served as a real estate instructor and speaker.
His vast knowledge and background has taken him all over to teach many topics regarding real estate agency, brokerage, business operations, contracts, appraisal, and investing. He hosts multiple podcasts on real estate education, as well. He is all about helping agents learn what they didn’t know they needed to know.
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